If you go register at the forum (http://www.mehacker.com) and ask a question, someone there can help you. I know that the forum looks empty right now, but we’re just getting it kicked off and we have a few experts watching it who will be more than happy to help you. As soon as you can post there, you should get an answer as the admins will receive an email. Answering on the blog is really cumbersome – thanks and good luck!

Have you had his T level checked? That would be a great first step. I think I feel an article about ‘how to get your husband to go to the doctor’ coming on!

It is possible to do lab tests from home now – even a simple saliva test would be a good start. Maybe you could collect his drool while he is asleep in a chair and send it in for testing? Just kidding – do let me know if I can you any information that help though – I think that my wife would be extremely sympathetic, having been through this with me and seen it through to the other side. It’s a treatable condition – you both just need to take the first step. I think that my T level being in check makes my wife even happier than it makes me!

Again, let me know if I can do anything to help. Life is too short to feel like crap.